FATHER ROLE IN EDUCATION CHILDREN ACCORDING TO THE PERSPECTIVE OF ISLAMIC EDUCATION

Irmawati Irmawati* -  Universitas Islam Negeri Imam Bonjol Padang, Indonesia

The phenomenon that is found today, culturally among the people still views the father's role as being responsible only as a breadwinner. So that the father's time and thoughts are focused and eroded to make a living, and run out of opportunities in educating children. Children do not get the affection and touch of education from the father figure, which has an impact on children's behavior and causes a moral crisis in children. While the role of fathers in educating children is very important and related to the growth and development of children. In the Al-Quran, stories of the role of successful fathers in educating their children are found. Like the story of Lukmanul Halim, the story of Prophet Ibrahim AS, Prophet Zakaria US and the story of Prophet Ya'kub US. The formulation of the problem in this study is what is the role of the father in educating children according to the perspective of Islamic education? Described objectively and systematically. This research succeeded in finding several concepts of the father's role in educating children's spiritual spiritual education according to the perspective of Islam, which can be revealed, among others: by instilling faith, introducing and instilling halal and haram laws, educating children to establish prayer, educating children to love Rasulullah SAW, and getting used to children to read the Koran. Some concepts of the father's role in educating children's physical education according to the perspective of Islamic education are: by getting children to exercise, providing halal and thoyyib food, maintaining children's health and seeking treatment and providing a safe and proper place to live. Some of the concepts of the father's role in educating children's intellect according to the perspective of Islamic education are: by instilling a love of knowledge, guiding, facilitating children to memorize the Qur'an and Hadith, selecting good schools and teachers, providing a home library, and directing children on their talents and Some concepts of the father's role in socially educating children according to the perspective of Islamic education are: Get to know the child's personality, instill basic psychological principles (piety, brotherhood, compassion and forgiveness), create a comfortable atmosphere at home, and supervise the environment and playmate.

Keywords : father role; educate children; Islamic Education

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